Archive #5

jonezn4Bones wrote:

marymageli wrote:

jonezn4Bones wrote:

magicstar wrote:oh sweets..that is bad..!!! i know you love her...but she sounds like a bitch....she took your kids away!!!

I'm no saint. I never cheated on her, beat her or the kids, or a lot of the normal crap women experience but I knew what I had and I pissed it away. I would forget (since she is so much like Brennan) that although she didn't exhibit the usual feminine emotions that didn't mean they weren't there. I treated her like I was dealing with a man. She couldn't compartmentalize things the way men do to deal with ugliness. She pretended to but it wasn't the real thing. Then a year plus after the divorce her sister told me, "I always thought you should have been with me, anyway." That was very much like the Cam and her sister deal with Booth for their father's birthday dinner.

Ouch! That's a twist. And dare she? I mean...

I do not know what happened near the end of the marriage but prior to that I know she never cheated. She regularly bragged to her friends that she knew I would never cheat. It may have given her too much security. I can't say. But, the last 15 months of my marriage I slept on the couch. I was not invited to join her during that time. About 2 months prior to her leaving she asked me to get something from her purse and my {stale?} condoms fell out onto the floor. I looked at her and her answer was, "Just in case."

If you want a real good story I'll tell you about the last time 'together" after that - but that story will be for another night. Let's stay happy.

SquirtandMilo wrote:Oh well Fly. My mum said she was never going to have kids. And the only reason she did was because I came along. Mistake number one.

redrider wrote:oh, and thanks for the pointer, flyer....you will let us know when you crack that first winecooler, right?