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Post by flyersfan35 on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:40 am

Kas...it's not a yes or no question...

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Re: Archive #7

Post by flyersfan35 on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:41 am

And squirt, I'm sorry, that just really sucks.

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Re: Archive #7

Post by phoebsfan on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:42 am

so many buttons


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Re: Archive #7

Post by phoebsfan on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:42 am

Basketball

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Re: Archive #7

Post by phoebsfan on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:45 am

echo... echo...

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Re: Archive #7

Post by flyersfan35 on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:45 am

Haha, I like this one...this is me most of the time... confused

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Post by phoebsfan on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:45 am

I'm taking over the board now.

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Re: Archive #7

Post by jonezn4Bones on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:46 am

My wife came from an abusive father. She never really broke free. When we had our own kids I came down before work and overheard my wife talking to our four year old daughter. I had to intervene when I heard my wife say to her, "If you don't do what I ask I won't love you anymore . . ."

That's what she learned from her parents. I made it my only priority after that to let my kids know that love is unconditional and that their being worthy of love is not based on merit or it needing to be earned. I play a game with my kids when they ask me for something or confess a mistake they've made and ask forgiveness.

In a lofty, deep, royal sounding voice I ask, "Are you worthy?" and they answer, "Yes. I am worthy?" Then I ask them why they think they are worthy. They get a huge smile when they answer, "Because you love me, Daddy."

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Re: Archive #7

Post by flyersfan35 on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:47 am

Yeah, phoebs, it seems as if we've been abandoned...

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Re: Archive #7

Post by phoebsfan on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:47 am

Spoiler:
i ♥ spoiler tags

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Post by Kasper on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:47 am

I remember one time my brother threw a flashlight at my and it hit me in a head. This wasn't an ordinary flashlight, bit one of the big, heavy Maglite ones that cops carry. I was afraid to tell my dad because he would get pissed so I sat in my room all day with a lump on my head and a headache until my mom came home.

And then there was this one time that my brother and I put a whole in the wall. That was really, really bad day.

Yet I can never, ever speak ill of the same man that didn't eat for three days so that we could eat the little food that remained in the cabinets when we couldn't afford it. Or the same man that works his ass off for eight hours with a lump on the back of his ankle from when he broke his ankle and couldn't afford the doctor bills to ever get it properly fixed. I still must applaud this man for everything that he has done for me.

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Re: Archive #7

Post by flyersfan35 on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:48 am

jonezn4Bones wrote:My wife came from an abusive father. She never really broke free. When we had our own kids I came down before work and overheard my wife talking to our four year old daughter. I had to intervene when I heard my wife say to her, "If you don't do what I ask I won't love you anymore . . ."

That's what she learned from her parents. I made it my only priority after that to let my kids know that love is unconditional and that their being worthy of love is not based on merit or it needing to be earned. I play a game with my kids when they ask me for something or confess a mistake they've made and ask forgiveness.

In a lofty, deep, royal sounding voice I ask, "Are you worthy?" and they answer, "Yes. I am worthy?" Then I ask them why they think they are worthy. They get a huge smile when they answer, "Because you love me, Daddy."
That's very smart...and very true.

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Re: Archive #7

Post by jonezn4Bones on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:48 am

phoebsfan wrote:I'm taking over the board now.


You're on a quest to nix Angela, aren't you?

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Post by phoebsfan on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:49 am

yes I am.

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Re: Archive #7

Post by jonezn4Bones on Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:51 am

phoebsfan wrote:yes I am.


So if I keep asking questions that you only need to answer with a single word or two that will get around tour aversion to one word posts to speed up the process?

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