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RGPageantqueen wrote:

Aloemilk wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

Aloemilk wrote:Night Kas... and what happens to Sany?

btw, I think sex ed is a must what you choose to do with that knowledge (meaning, use it now or later on in your life) is your decision-- but as Squirt said, in today's society there should be no taboos concerning sex.

Well I think starting at a certain age, around puberty it's best to start talking to your kids about sex. I already talked to my little sister Maddie who is 9 about her period and that stuff... My mother won't do it... It was times like that I wish I had an older sister, I had to rely on my friends and older cousins...

you can talk about sex to children 3 years old--- the thing is HOW you explain it to them. You have to adapt the speech considering how ready they are to understand what you're gonna say. That means the description and the depth of the discussion on what sex involcves (and the healthy behavior related to it) will change depending on the listener's characteristics.

SO, everyone's old enough to know about sex!

I see no point in telling a three year about sex when there's no need too. The only way I would see that is if you're pregnant and your kid asks you where babies come from, then yeah sure go for it. But you don't need to sit your 3 year old down and tell them about sex.

children do ask where do babies come from.. and what sex is. It's not like you can't find sex everywhere...
that doesn't mean you'll start talking hormones with them, but there are options to explain so they'll understand and NOT be fooled at the same time.

Aloemilk wrote:Night Kas... and what happens to Sany?

btw, I think sex ed is a must what you choose to do with that knowledge (meaning, use it now or later on in your life) is your decision-- but as Squirt said, in today's society there should be no taboos concerning sex.

The church could incorporate their beliefs into it. But just because a child goes to church does not mean that they believe in abstinence so by simply saying 'wait until marriage to have sex and you'll be fine' and growing up in conservative homes, those are the children that are at risk.

I think it's so important that people have the knowledge. Religions must adapt to the times in order to remain viable.

hy6110327 wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

hy6110327 wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

squirtandmilo wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

Zeddie wrote:

squirtandmilo wrote:14?! We start sex Ed at 9 or 10. You are old enough!

we started in grade 6 so bout 12. and we have it every year after.

My school is housed on a church. We don't have sex ed, so i had to rely on my normal school friends for all that stuff...

While I understand that the Church has it's rules, I think that in today's society that kind of thing can cause issues. Evey child should have sex ed. It's how we are going to help lower teen pregnancy, lower sti's and help prevent the spread of HIV and Aids.

Yep, I agree completely. I was reading a book and in the book the main character had this crush on her best friends brother and he went to this church (which sounds a lot like mine) and the pastor made 2 loaves of banana bread and one was perfect and fluffy and the other was flat and gross and he compared it to abstinence, he said the flat one had all the same ingredients but they were put together in the wrong order and he said that sex was the same way if you have sex before marriage it makes you gross and wrong. And I was like really? The sad thing is I wouldn't put it past my pastors to do something like that. It's comppletely stupid. I want to have a discussion with them.... maybe at graduation, when I'm not their problem anymore.

That sounds really familiar

what the book or the point of the part of the book i was referring to? The book is called the "Boyfriend list" it's really cute.

Yup. Just finished it today. That's why it sounded really familiar. But I read that part like last week. lol!

I just read that like an hour ago so it was fresh in my mind. I don't understand why in every chapter she's supposed to talk about a specific boy and it always ends up back to Jackson...

My 6 yr old keeps trying to have the where do babies come from discussion. I don't even know what to say so he'll understand.Though I think I may underestimate him a bit.

Aloemilk wrote:

Sany wrote:

howie wrote:

Zeddie wrote:

squirtandmilo wrote:14?! We start sex Ed at 9 or 10. You are old enough!

we started in grade 6 so bout 12. and we have it every year after.

I didn't get sex ed unitl my sophmore year in high school!

11yearso ld for us ithin ask me tomrow

Dear... are you tired enough to collapse so your brain isn't responding... or did you drink a little bit too much of something alcoholic? lol

a and be. 11 beres in 2 hours most in htelast tow and 4 hoursl seep last inght

night fly

howie wrote:

Aloemilk wrote:

Sany wrote:

howie wrote:

Zeddie wrote:

squirtandmilo wrote:14?! We start sex Ed at 9 or 10. You are old enough!

we started in grade 6 so bout 12. and we have it every year after.

I didn't get sex ed unitl my sophmore year in high school!

11yearso ld for us ithin ask me tomrow

Dear... are you tired enough to collapse so your brain isn't responding... or did you drink a little bit too much of something alcoholic? lol

alot of something alcoholic.

I suspected that, lol... but I couldn't simply assume!!!!! lol
had to give her an option...

RGPageantqueen wrote:

howie wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

howie wrote:

Zeddie wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

Zeddie wrote:

Kasper wrote:let's talk about sex

there is a minor here

you're old enough to know about sex. My 13 year old sister knows about sex, you surely can.

Pimp can't talk about when I'm here

That's because he can get a little bit graphic

Yeah you just gotta take what he says with a grain of salt sometimes... nice guy though.

He is and he's good around the younger ones. jonzey too.

I don't think I met Jonezy.. who is that?

He's around every now and again. He's the other male here. Dad's usually here during the day

Aloemilk wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

Aloemilk wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

Aloemilk wrote:Night Kas... and what happens to Sany?

btw, I think sex ed is a must what you choose to do with that knowledge (meaning, use it now or later on in your life) is your decision-- but as Squirt said, in today's society there should be no taboos concerning sex.

Well I think starting at a certain age, around puberty it's best to start talking to your kids about sex. I already talked to my little sister Maddie who is 9 about her period and that stuff... My mother won't do it... It was times like that I wish I had an older sister, I had to rely on my friends and older cousins...

you can talk about sex to children 3 years old--- the thing is HOW you explain it to them. You have to adapt the speech considering how ready they are to understand what you're gonna say. That means the description and the depth of the discussion on what sex involcves (and the healthy behavior related to it) will change depending on the listener's characteristics.

SO, everyone's old enough to know about sex!

I see no point in telling a three year about sex when there's no need too. The only way I would see that is if you're pregnant and your kid asks you where babies come from, then yeah sure go for it. But you don't need to sit your 3 year old down and tell them about sex.

children do ask where do babies come from.. and what sex is. It's not like you can't find sex everywhere...
that doesn't mean you'll start talking hormones with them, but there are options to explain so they'll understand and NOT be fooled at the same time.

All children will explore their bodies and sexuality, but there is no need to tell them about it in detail unless they ask, when it is vital that you tell them the truth and don't act like it's the biggest taboo out there.

RGPageantqueen wrote:

howie wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

howie wrote:

Zeddie wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

Zeddie wrote:

Kasper wrote:let's talk about sex

there is a minor here

you're old enough to know about sex. My 13 year old sister knows about sex, you surely can.

Pimp can't talk about when I'm here

That's because he can get a little bit graphic

Yeah you just gotta take what he says with a grain of salt sometimes... nice guy though.

He is and he's good around the younger ones. jonzey too.

I don't think I met Jonezy.. who is that?

He's our other resident male. Pops in and out every once in awhile.

RGPageantqueen wrote:

hy6110327 wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

hy6110327 wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

squirtandmilo wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

Zeddie wrote:

squirtandmilo wrote:14?! We start sex Ed at 9 or 10. You are old enough!

we started in grade 6 so bout 12. and we have it every year after.

My school is housed on a church. We don't have sex ed, so i had to rely on my normal school friends for all that stuff...

While I understand that the Church has it's rules, I think that in today's society that kind of thing can cause issues. Evey child should have sex ed. It's how we are going to help lower teen pregnancy, lower sti's and help prevent the spread of HIV and Aids.

Yep, I agree completely. I was reading a book and in the book the main character had this crush on her best friends brother and he went to this church (which sounds a lot like mine) and the pastor made 2 loaves of banana bread and one was perfect and fluffy and the other was flat and gross and he compared it to abstinence, he said the flat one had all the same ingredients but they were put together in the wrong order and he said that sex was the same way if you have sex before marriage it makes you gross and wrong. And I was like really? The sad thing is I wouldn't put it past my pastors to do something like that. It's comppletely stupid. I want to have a discussion with them.... maybe at graduation, when I'm not their problem anymore.

That sounds really familiar

what the book or the point of the part of the book i was referring to? The book is called the "Boyfriend list" it's really cute.

Yup. Just finished it today. That's why it sounded really familiar. But I read that part like last week. lol!

I just read that like an hour ago so it was fresh in my mind. I don't understand why in every chapter she's supposed to talk about a specific boy and it always ends up back to Jackson...

I didn't much like it. The guys blend together after a while. It got so boring. And it goes back to Jackson for a while. Its weird. Cause its written in the past tense until like the last 15 pages

Sany wrote:

Aloemilk wrote:

Sany wrote:

howie wrote:

Zeddie wrote:

squirtandmilo wrote:14?! We start sex Ed at 9 or 10. You are old enough!

we started in grade 6 so bout 12. and we have it every year after.

I didn't get sex ed unitl my sophmore year in high school!

11yearso ld for us ithin ask me tomrow

Dear... are you tired enough to collapse so your brain isn't responding... or did you drink a little bit too much of something alcoholic? lol

a and be. 11 beres in 2 hours most in htelast tow and 4 hoursl seep last inght

at least there was beer involved have fun and go to sleep!! and when you do, have sweet, sweet booth dreams!

squirtandmilo wrote:

Aloemilk wrote:Night Kas... and what happens to Sany?

btw, I think sex ed is a must what you choose to do with that knowledge (meaning, use it now or later on in your life) is your decision-- but as Squirt said, in today's society there should be no taboos concerning sex.

The church could incorporate their beliefs into it. But just because a child goes to church does not mean that they believe in abstinence so by simply saying 'wait until marriage to have sex and you'll be fine' and growing up in conservative homes, those are the children that are at risk.

I think it's so important that people have the knowledge. Religions must adapt to the times in order to remain viable.

You don't understand, I mean maybe you do and I am reading it wrong. But these churches, like the ones I go (which I will leave as soon as I graduate) brainwash you. They don't want to CONDONE to premarital sex because the holy book says you can't have sex before marriage or you perish in hell. They push that guilt deep into your brain so that when you think about having sex before marriage you hear that voice in that back of your mind "you're dirty" "You're going to burn in hell" It gets to you, like you have no idea. It's a game of brainwashing. A game of power over a massive group of people, It's not faith or holy or godly by any means. These churches, make you feel BAD about yourself when you shouldn't feel bad about yourself. Thats what I'm talking about. But i think kids need to be taught safe sex, because regardless of what you tell them, they're going to have sex and it's uneducated you will suffer the most.

squirtandmilo wrote:

Aloemilk wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

Aloemilk wrote:

RGPageantqueen wrote:

Aloemilk wrote:Night Kas... and what happens to Sany?

btw, I think sex ed is a must what you choose to do with that knowledge (meaning, use it now or later on in your life) is your decision-- but as Squirt said, in today's society there should be no taboos concerning sex.

Well I think starting at a certain age, around puberty it's best to start talking to your kids about sex. I already talked to my little sister Maddie who is 9 about her period and that stuff... My mother won't do it... It was times like that I wish I had an older sister, I had to rely on my friends and older cousins...

you can talk about sex to children 3 years old--- the thing is HOW you explain it to them. You have to adapt the speech considering how ready they are to understand what you're gonna say. That means the description and the depth of the discussion on what sex involcves (and the healthy behavior related to it) will change depending on the listener's characteristics.

SO, everyone's old enough to know about sex!

I see no point in telling a three year about sex when there's no need too. The only way I would see that is if you're pregnant and your kid asks you where babies come from, then yeah sure go for it. But you don't need to sit your 3 year old down and tell them about sex.

children do ask where do babies come from.. and what sex is. It's not like you can't find sex everywhere...
that doesn't mean you'll start talking hormones with them, but there are options to explain so they'll understand and NOT be fooled at the same time.

All children will explore their bodies and sexuality, but there is no need to tell them about it in detail unless they ask, when it is vital that you tell them the truth and don't act like it's the biggest taboo out there.

Seems we agree on the subject *shakes Squirt's hand*

Dad's been busy with work. He is around sometimes though.